But there comes a point…when it all starts to feel overwhelming. Too much. Frustrating. And you start to ask a lot of questions that begin with WHY.
Why can’t I get my sh*t together? I hear you.
Why does it feel so messy? I get it.
Why does this seem so hard? Yup. This isn’t rocket science.
Why am I spending all my time working? I know, it’d be nice to spend time with your family, too.
Why am I still trying to figure out what to work on? Yes, it can seem like a hamster wheel.
Why won’t someone just tell me the secret sauce to all of this? I’ve got that recipe. We’ll get to it later.
And you’ve asked those other people “what they think” – you could really use their help. But your friends are IN your story with you, commiserating.
And your partner is super “supportive,” but when it comes to doing the hard things, said partner doesn’t want to see you struggle. They just want you to be “happy,” not stressed. Sounds good, doesn’t it?
And neither group of people may even see that struggle for what it is. Because to them, you look like you’re doing all the things pretty damn perfectly.
I get it. You look like you have it all together, but you want to feel like you have it together for you too.
This is when it’s time to take action, and here are some ways you can do just that.